A-Infos (en) Germany, AGDO: The apple & the tree trunk: Projet-Evasions - A love letter - CN Exclusion, queerphobia, sexuality -- web => projet-evasions.org/de (ca, de, it, pt, tr)[machine translation]

"Exclusion is not solved by inclusion, but by attacking the forces that 
exclude." ---- How to Destroy the World - Ignorant Research Institute 
---- ---- How to Destroy the World - Institute for Ignorant Research 
-------- In a world deeply hostile to the individual, relationships are 
full of subversive, revolutionary, and emancipatory possibilities. The 
complicity we forge gives us the strength we need to survive, allows us 
to escape, to grow, to evolve, and transforms our everyday lives into an 
endless adventure. Let's let our love run wild by breaking with all 
norms, labels, moral judgments, oppressive patterns, and positions of 
authority.

Here is one report, one inspiration, one way of loving among thousands.

My love is queer. Queer in its original sense, used as a derogatory term 
for "not straight." Not a label, not an identity, just a negation. It's 
not about what you are, but about what you are not: monogamous, 
heterosexual, cisgender... not within the prevailing norms, not in the 
right boxes. A negation of prevailing norms that opens up a wide horizon 
of possibilities.

* My love is nihilistic; it doesn't care about gender differences. It 
touches the individual, not gender identity.

My love is unique and different for every person I love. Any attempt to 
compare them would be absurd. The love I experience with each person is 
specifically built for our connection and is sufficient unto itself each 
time.

My love is rebellious, neither monogamous nor polyamorous. It doesn't 
care about the societal categories that try to normalize our 
relationships. When I love, I try to create a connection, not a status 
like "partner, friend, spouse, lover, etc."

* My love is anarchistic; it emancipates itself from societal 
hierarchies that dictate how romantic and sexual relationships should be 
prioritized over any other form of love.

My love doesn't confuse sex with intimacy, but sees intimacy in every 
aspect of vulnerability. In this sense, I don't reserve intimacy 
exclusively for the people I have sex with, and sometimes I have sex 
without intimacy.

* My love is free; it develops with mutual consent wherever we like, 
regardless of what the various social or moral authorities think about it.

My love loves it when I'm told no. There's no better proof that someone 
I love feels free than the fact that they say "no" to me. I want to 
rejoice in what this "no" says about the relationship: Freedom is placed 
at its core.

My love is multifaceted. It is not a limited resource that I should 
sparingly give to one specific person. This logic leads to a completely 
unnecessary dynamic of competition.

* My love is an offer of complicity, an offer to support each other and 
to develop a dynamic of goodwill and empathy in a hostile world.

* My love is trying to break out of all learned norms: Romantic love is 
more valuable than any other form of love and is a form of social 
success / Romantic and sexual love should only be directed towards 
people of the opposite sex (and there are only two sexes) / Romantic 
love should only be given to one person (the right one), or at least 
only one person at a time / Sexuality is the necessary glue of every 
love relationship... and so on, the list is long.

My love life is imperfect; sometimes I slip, stumble, and fall. But 
every time I get back up, my balance seems more secure.

* It is my love and I love her.

This text was published by Projet-Evasions, a multilingual network of 
anarchist friendships. A zine-format version can be ordered from us in 
exchange for a donation. Find out more at Projet-Evasions.org or 
evasions@riseup.net

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